Response Card (a.k.a. People's Evidence A)

Just to prove the point of where some of the confusion in regards to our RSVPs here is a copy of one. We used Rachelle's hand made paper for the backing. Then we printed on pink paper (which matched the backing paper on the invitation) and deckle cut the edges. Please notice the lack of a "Decline with regrets" line. And there in lines the confusion. Do I send back the response even though I am not going? Do I not send it back and hope that the bride and groom assume we are not coming?
ANSWER - Send it back writing in "Can't make it."
Please note the particular enigmatic response from our one guest.